Public or Private?
I have to admit, I thought this was funny and inside of me an attitude of; “that’s what the driver deserved!” It’s a needed lesson for this young man and couldn’t be easy to learn in such a way with many people looking on, laughing, cheering, yelling at him.
I then thought; “what if all my mistakes were so public? What if every time I made a bad choice, a wrong decision, it was being recorded and a put on large display, which made everyone look at me, see my lack of wisdom and knowledge?” I wouldn’t like it. I would be embarrassed. I would hopefully never make the same misjudgment again but the shame of how I learned would be with me for a very long time.
A wise sage once said; “Praise in public, correct in private. This is how wisdom is best gained.”
Posted on April 11, 2016, in Mindfulness and tagged #badchoices, #decision, #embarrassed, #knowledge, #lack, #learn, #misjudgment, #mistakes, #private, #public, #wisdom, #wise, #wrong, shame. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.