Other People’s Drama
Other People’s Drama –
At one time during my adult years, I came across a quote that read; “An emergency on your part does not constitute a crisis on mine.” I don’t remember where it was but the quote has stuck with me.
There can be an almost irresistible draw when someone has a juicy piece of gossip or wants your opinion about a situation they’re facing. Before you offer your “two-cents” remember that once you pass through that door, enter yourself into other people’s drama, it may be impossible to get out. A couple of weeks ago I had a friend who was starting through the drama door and I reminded them; “make sure its worth it.”
The main issue with other people’s drama is there’s often a side to take, a team to join. This is usually the reason a person tells you about issues and problems in the first place. They want you in their corner. We puff ourselves up thinking; “They need our help. Our advice. Our support.” However, what they mostly want is someone to affirm them in the decisions they’ve already made.
I’m not telling people to not listen, empathize with others who need help, a willing ear or even a hand to pull them up but to understand that sometimes what people want and need are completely different things. Be aware and wary.
blessings,
@BrianLoging (Twitter)
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Posted on June 8, 2018, in Life and tagged #affirmthem, #almostimpossible, #awareness, #blessings, #completelydifferent, #crisis, #drama, #dramadoor, #emergency, #empathize, #getout, #hand, #inthefirstplace, #irresistible, #juicypieceofgossip, #lives, #mainissue, #makesureitsworthit, #needhelp, #notlisten, #offer, #OtherPeoplesDrama, #ouradvice, #ourhelp, #oursupport, #passthroughthatdoor, #peoples, #puffourselvesup, #pullthemup, #quote, #reminded, #sidetotake, #situation, #starting, #stuckwithme, #teamtojoin, #theircorner, #thewannabesaint.com, #theyvealreadymade, #thinking, #two-cents, #wantandneed, #willingear, @BrianLoging, Listen, Opinion. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.
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