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I was speaking with a group of men last night and we talked about the ability to be someone different from the person we are currently. I told them; “What you do today determines who you will be tomorrow.” If you want to be the man and the dad you need to be you must first know what you need to change and then begin making the choices that will lead you to your goal.

I went on to explain that everything we do presently, what we watch, listen to, speak about, participate in, everything! makes us into the person we will be in the future. Our present choices shape our destiny. “It’s when we see that now, this moment, is all we have and need to transform, that we finally have the wisdom to become what we need to be.”

As I talked to the men the truth of what was being said also resonated with me and my spirit. The truth, when revealed, is powerful enough to impact both audience and speaker.

blessings,
@BrianLoging (Twitter)
thewannabesaint.com

Fires Together, Wires Together

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This interesting picture and intriguing quote was in my Facebook feed this morning. It caught my attention in part because I’ve been studying Epigenetics. It’s the study of how trauma impacts people and generations following.

One of the experiments used to prove this area of science involved shocking a female rat with electricity when a certain odor was emitted. After a while the rat, even though there was no shock, still reacted when she smelled the specific odor. What’s even more compelling is the rat’s babies and the baby’s babies also reacted negatively even though the second and third generation of rats had never been shocked with electricity when the odor was emitted.

Epigenetics proposes that the genes of the rats have been altered, changed due to the trauma of the original female rat and these genes have been passed down to preceding generations.

Neurons that fire together wire together” is another phrase used by brain scientists which deal with nerve pathways. The more often we do something, or have something done to us, the more used to certain behaviors and environments we are mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually. In other words it becomes our definition of normal, our reality. It is only when we are able to learn new ways of thinking, being, can we change our personal and family’s destiny. To consider that the choices for our lives impact the immediate now and our, other’s, future the more important it is to be sure our decisions are filled with wisdom and grace.

blessings,
@BrianLoging (Twitter)
thewannabesaint.com

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A Life that takes a Lifetime to Live

On July, 27, 2010 the world lost a wonderful lady and I lost someone who had a profound impact on my life. Her name was Mrs. Georgia Kelly. Though many lay claim to the title she was in every way a genuine saint. She was a wonderful mother, an outstanding Sunday school teacher and a light in an often dark world. Over the last week I have often found myself thinking of her. When someone you care for deeply takes those final steps toward eternity our Heavenly Father comforts those left behind with memories that console, inspire and challenge us to follow their example. However, as I have tried to bring to mind specific moments, lessons learned, encounters that influenced, I have not been able to capture that one event that encapsulates what Mrs. Kelly meant to me and so many others.

What I keep coming back to is not one moment but one feeling, love. Mrs. Kelly loved me; of this I have no doubt. It was my honor and privilege to know her and be a part of her life. I was one of her many children. In my mind’s eye I picture Mrs. Kelly with her arms open wide and a beautiful smile that welcomed me with what I would describe as God’s grace actualized. In her presence I was safe, accepted, and loved.

In a world where many look for a big singular moment to define their legacy, Mrs. Kelly illustrated that a life well lived is a series of small events. Eugene Petersen describes this as a “long obedience in the same direction.” Her life was a journey, directed by God and lived in the knowledge and strength of His love and grace. Mrs. Kelly stayed on her Father’s path and manifested a love she knew and experienced to all who she met along the way.

I don’t know if the Apostle Paul and Mrs. Kelly will meet on the other side but I do know that he already described her when he wrote his first epistle to the Corinthian church. Georgia Kelly was “…patient; kind; not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. She did not insist on her own way; she wasn’t irritable or resentful; never rejoiced in wrongdoing, but rejoiced in the truth. She bore all things, believed all things, hoped in all things, endured all things. Her love never ended.” (1 Corinthians 13:4-8 New Revised Standard Version).

We live in a time when people “Tweet” or “Facebook” their every move. The desire to be famous seems to trump all other considerations. Few individuals long for a life that takes a lifetime to live. The challenge of Georgia Kelly is laid before us and a choice must be made. Thank you Mrs. Kelly for reminding me that life isn’t found in the destination but in the journey.

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