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Stop and Go

Stop and Go

Ever feel like traffic lights are purposefully hindering your travel? Yesterday I attended an event in a city about an hour and a half from our house. I left early enough to still arrive on time if there was any trouble on the way. Fortunately, there were no accidents or incidents but it seemed as if every traffic light was red or turning red when I approached. It was frustrating! It all evened out on the way back because it was mostly green lights but then I didn’t have to be somewhere at a certain time.

The stop and go of driving is draining for me. You build up some momentum only to have it taken away by watching a green light turn yellow and then red. There’s the thought of speeding up when the light is yellow or ignoring a just changed red light but that’s how accidents happen. As my truck sits there at the light, my eyes focused, waiting for it to turn green I hear the voice of wisdom in my head; “The lights aren’t doing this on purpose. You have plenty of time. There’s no need to feel rushed. Don’t give into the frustration. Breathe Brian. Breathe.” Usually, I can catch myself before I lose it and was able to yesterday although it was close! I arrived at the event with plenty of time to spare. The day was not ruined by traffic lights. All was well.

Life is similar at times. We build up momentum to change a problem, overcome a difficulty, make progress on our journey of life, only to run into roadblocks, obstacles, and setbacks. It can be easy to give up and become negative and a malcontent. We must remember to breathe, that most hard times are followed by easier, less testing times. Life is a long road. As sojourners we hope for the best, plan for the worst and find our way somewhere in between.

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Run Over

Earlier this afternoon I stopped to get a cold drink. The temps today are in the 90’s with humidity close to this mark as well. I exited the truck and began to walk across the parking lot into the restaurant when a small white Chevy truck, moving faster than needed caught my eye. I stopped, he didn’t. I watched as he passed and he stared back at me. I was thankful to have looked before crossing and wondered why he was in such a hurry.

Following my close encounter I reflected on times when people had tried to “run me over.” Moments and seasons when someone had an aim, purpose, goal they wanted to reach and didn’t consider how it impacted those around them. Whether it was an over-powering personality, a self focused agenda, a spirit draining selfishness, their destination was reached at the peril of others.

I also thought about my own pursuits and how, at times, I was more concerned with the journey than my fellow sojourners. Finding the balance between getting where we need to go and being sure our passions and purposes do no harm is important and necessary to ensure we reach our destinations, together.

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Asking for Directions or Getting Direction?

“Sometimes people are just asking for direction not needing direction. May we be mindful enough to know the difference.”

Road Sign 1A while ago a car passed by…a couple of times…it was obvious the person driving was lost so when it pulled into our driveway it was no surprise. I stopped what I was doing and walked to meet our guests as a young lady opened the passenger door, met me half way and proceeded to ask where a certain road was located. I pointed her in the right direction, she said “thanks”, hopped back in the car, courtesy wave, and they were gone.

As they drove off I offered a prayer of wisdom and direction for their travels and had an interesting thought.  What if, when she asked for direction, I offered her a metaphysical treatise on life, mortality, the meaning of the universe? How helpful would this have been? Not much. Would I still have gotten my courtesy wave? Probably not.

Often our paths cross with other sojourners for the briefest of moments. How helpful are we? I enjoy, and cringe?, at the quote that says; “that person is so heavenly minded, they’re no earthly good!” Sometimes people are just asking for direction not needing direction. May we be mindful enough to know the difference.

blessings of peace,


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